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Umuyobozi w'Itsinda Aaron Incamake y'Inyigisho: Ubuyobozi bw' "Kurokoka" ku Babyeyi bo mu mpeshyi
Uko impeshyi yegereje, ibibazo byo kurera abana nk'imibanire y'umuryango, igihe cyo kureba televiziyo, n'imihangayiko mu masomo bitangira kugaragara. Kugira ngo ababyeyi bashyigikire guhangana n'ibi bibazo, CIEO iratumira Bwana Aaron,HAMAGARAUmuyobozi waAmashuri Mpuzamahanga mu Bushinwa n'impuguke mu burezi bw'inararibonye, gutegura ikiganiro cyihariye cyabereye imbonankubone: "Ubuyobozi bw'ubuzima bwo kurera abana mu biruhuko byo mu mpeshyi."
Aaron Chavez
Umuyobozi wa CIEOAmashuri Mpuzamahanga mu Bushinwa
Uburambe bw'imyaka irenga 25 mu burezi
Ihuza ubuyobozi bw'ubugaragu, ubuhanga mu by'amasomo, n'iterambere ryuzuye kugira ngo hubakwe umuryango w'uburezi uhamye
Aaron ntabwo ari umuyobozi w’inararibonye mu burezi mpuzamahanga gusa, ahubwo ni n’umubyeyi w’abana batatu akaba n’umwanditsi waAmategeko 7 yo kurera abanaMuri iki kiganiro cy’imbonankubone, azakoresha mu nkuru zishingiye ku buzima busanzwe mu gitabo cye kugira ngo ahe ababyeyi ingamba zifatika, zishingiye ku bushakashatsi zifite icyerekezo cy’isi yose—zikubiyemo ingingo nkauburyo bwo kurera abana, gushyiraho imipaka, itumanaho rishingiye ku marangamutima, ingeso zo kwiga, no gushimangira imibanire y'umuryango.
Guskana kugira ngo wiyandikishe
Aaron ntabwo ari umuyobozi w’inararibonye mu burezi mpuzamahanga gusa, ahubwo ni n’umubyeyi w’abana batatu akaba n’umwanditsi waAmategeko 7 yo kurera abanaMuri iki kiganiro cy’imbonankubone, azakoresha mu nkuru zishingiye ku buzima busanzwe mu gitabo cye kugira ngo ahe ababyeyi ingamba zifatika, zishingiye ku bushakashatsi zifite icyerekezo cy’isi yose—zikubiyemo ingingo nkauburyo bwo kurera abana, gushyiraho imipaka, itumanaho rishingiye ku marangamutima, ingeso zo kwiga, no gushimangira imibanire y'umuryango.
01｜Imbogamizi n'Iterambere:
Guhindura "Ibibazo" by'Impeshyi mo Amahirwe yo Kwiteza Imbere
Guhera ku bye bwitefilozofiya y'uburere, Aaron azasangiza abandi uburyo ababyeyi bashobora guhindura imbogamizi mu buryo bwo gukura mu gihe cy'ikiruhuko cy'impeshyi hagati y'ababyeyi n'abana:
“Kurera abana ni akajagari, ntibiteganyijwe, kandi rimwe na rimwe bicisha bugufi cyane. Ariko uku ni uku: uko turushaho kubikora, ni ko abana bacu baba biteguye neza.”
Azanasuzumauburyo butandukanye bwo kurera, harimo:
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Uburenganzira:
Ababyeyi bashyiraho amategeko asobanutse neza, bakanatega amatwi abana babo kandi bakabaha.
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Umutegetsi w'igitugu:
Ababyeyi bibanda ku guhana no kumvira, batita cyane ku byo bakeneye mu buryo bw'amarangamutima.
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Yemerewe:
Abatari biteze byinshi, ntibabyitayeho cyane. Ababyeyi bashyiraho imipaka mike kandi barekurira abana babo cyane.
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Nta ruhare:
Ababyeyi ntibaba bafite icyizere gihagije, ntibagira icyo bakora cyane. Ababyeyi ntibaba bafite ubushake bukomeye kandi ntibagira uruhare runini mu marangamutima.
Azanasobanurauburyo bwo kumenya no guhangana n'ibibazo by'ubwana (ACEs)—ibintu bibabaje mu bwana nko guhohoterwa mu ngo, ihohoterwa, kubura uwo ukunda, cyangwa gutandukana n’ababyeyi—bishobora kugira ingaruka zirambye ku buzima bwo mu mutwe bw’umwana no ku mibereho ye y’ejo hazaza.
02｜Gucunga Igihe cya Ecran:
Kuva ku makimbirane kugera ku bwumvikane
Muri iki gihe cy'ikoranabuhanga, gukoresha interineti byahindutse ikibazo gikomeye mu burezi bw'umuryango. Aaron azasangira"Inzira yo Kwiyoroshya":
“Kwitonda si igihano—ni ubwenge. Mu isi y’ibintu bikabije, ‘birahagije’ ni imbaraga zikomeye.”
Azagaragaza uburyo akoresha"Ikibabi cy'igihe cyo kureba"uburyo bwo gufasha abana gutsinda ubusinzi bw'imikino; kuganira ku kamaro n'imyitozo yo guhanga"Uturere tudafite ikoranabuhanga"mu rugo; kandi utange igitekerezo"Ubwiza bw'ubwenge, umubiri, umwuka"Uburyo bwo gufasha ingimbi n'abangavu kwirinda imitwaro myinshi yo ku mbuga nkoranyambaga no kongera kugira ubuzima bwiza.
Ashimangira kandi ati:
“Itegeko ry’Ururimi ritwibutsa ko amagambo yacu agena imiterere y’abana bacu.”
Mu gushyiraho amategeko,koresha imvugo isobanutse kandi y'icyubahiroaho kubashinja cyangwa kubashyira mu majwi, bityo abana bumva ko bafitiye icyizere inyuma y'aho baba bari.
03｜Gutanga imbaraga
ahazaza harenze ibizamini
Ahanganye n'ibibazo by'amarangamutima by'abana nyuma y'ibizamini, Aaron ashimangira agira ati:"Gukemura ibibazo mu buryo bufatika biruta amanota meza."Mu kiganiro kiri imbere, azagaragaza ibitekerezo bya"Incamake y'ibyananiranye"na"T""Abana bafite ishusho"gufasha ababyeyi gutegura imikurire y'abana babo mu buryo bw'ingamba mu gihe cy'izuba, bigabanura imihangayiko y'ababyeyi.
04｜Gusana hagati y'umubyeyi n'umwana:
Kugenzura Guhuza
“Kurera abana si ukugenzura ibintu—ni ukumenyana.”
Muri iki gihe cy'impeshyi, kubera ko gahunda z'umuryango zahungabanye, Aaron azasangiza abandi uburyo bwo kongera kubaka vuba umubano hagati y'umubyeyi n'umwana""Indirimbo yo kurera abana" 3:2:1n'"5-Gukosora mu minota.Azanagaragaza"Icyitegererezo cyo gusaba imbabazi"n'"Itegeko ryo kwerekana imyitwarire"gufasha abana kugira inshingano no kugenzura amarangamutima.
"Iterambere, ntabwo ari ubuziranenge."
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"Ntabwo uri inyuma. Uri kuba."
——Aaron Chavez, "Amategeko 7 yo kurera abana"
Kurera abana si ugukemura ibibazo gusa — ni ukurebagukurira hamweTwifatanye natwe muri iki kiganiro cya Live kugira ngo tuzane urukundo n'imbaraga mu rugendo rwawe rw'impeshyi.
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