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Umqondisi Weqembu U-Aaron Ukubuka Kuqala Inkulumo: Umhlahlandlela "Wokusinda" Wokukhulisa Abantwana Ehlobo
Njengoba ihlobo lisondela, izinselele zobuzali ezifana nokuguquguquka komndeni, isikhathi sokubuka isikrini, kanye nokukhathazeka ngezifundo ziqala ukuvela. Ukuze kusekelwe abazali ekubhekaneni nalezi zinkinga, i-CIEO imema uMnu. Aaron ngemfudumalo,SHAYELAUmqondisi weIzikole Zamazwe Ngamazwe eShayina kanye nochwepheshe wezemfundo onolwazi, ukusingatha iseshini ekhethekile ebukhoma: "Umhlahlandlela Wokusinda Wokukhulisa Izingane Ngesikhathi Seholide Lasehlobo."
U-Aaron Chavez
Umqondisi we-CIEOIzikole Zamazwe Ngamazwe eShayina
Iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-25 yesipiliyoni kwezemfundo
Ihlanganisa ubuholi bokukhonza, ukuqina kwezemfundo, kanye nentuthuko ephelele ukwakha umphakathi wezemfundo ophilayo
U-Aaron akayena nje umholi onolwazi kwezemfundo yamazwe ngamazwe, kodwa futhi ungubaba wezingane ezintathu kanye nombhali wencwadi ethiImithetho Engu-7 Yokukhulisa IzinganeKulesi sigaba esibukhoma, uzosebenzisa amacala angokoqobo encwadini yakhe ukuze anikeze abazali amasu asebenzayo, asekelwe ocwaningweni anombono womhlaba wonke—ahlanganisa izihloko ezifana naleziizitayela zokukhulisa izingane, ukubeka imingcele, ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, imikhuba yokufunda, kanye nokuqinisa ukuxhumana komndeni.
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U-Aaron akayena nje umholi onolwazi kwezemfundo yamazwe ngamazwe, kodwa futhi ungubaba wezingane ezintathu kanye nombhali wencwadi ethiImithetho Engu-7 Yokukhulisa IzinganeKulesi sigaba esibukhoma, uzosebenzisa amacala angokoqobo encwadini yakhe ukuze anikeze abazali amasu asebenzayo, asekelwe ocwaningweni anombono womhlaba wonke—ahlanganisa izihloko ezifana naleziizitayela zokukhulisa izingane, ukubeka imingcele, ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo, imikhuba yokufunda, kanye nokuqinisa ukuxhumana komndeni.
01｜Izinselele Nokukhula:
Ukuguqula “Izinkinga” Zasehlobo Zibe Amathuba Entuthuko
Kusukela kwelakheifilosofi yobuzali, u-Aaron uzokwabelana ngendlela abazali abangaguqula ngayo izinselele zibe amathuba okukhula ngesikhathi sekhefu lasehlobo phakathi komzali nomntwana “eliyingozi kakhulu.”
"Ukukhulisa izingane kuyinto exakile, engalindelekile, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuyathobisa. Kodwa nansi iqiniso: uma sikwenza kangcono, kulapho izingane zethu ziyozilungiselela kangcono."
Uzophinde ahloleizindlela ezahlukene zokukhulisa izingane, kufaka phakathi:
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Ogunyaziwe:
Ukulindela okukhulu, ukuphendula okuphezulu. Abazali babeka imithetho ecacile ngenkathi belalela futhi behlonipha izingane zabo.
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Ubushiqela：
Ukulindela okuphezulu, ukusabela okuphansi. Abazali bagxila ekuqondiseni nasekulaleleni, bengenandaba kangako nezidingo ezingokomzwelo.
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Ivumelekile:
Ukulindela okuphansi, ukuphendula okuphezulu. Abazali babeka imingcele embalwa futhi banomusa kakhulu ezinganeni zabo.
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Akubandakanyiwe:
Ukulindela okuphansi, ukusabela okuphansi. Abazali abaqinisi futhi abahileleki ngokomzwelo.
Uzophinde ambozeindlela yokubona nokusabela ezinkingeni zobuntwana (ama-ACE)—izehlakalo ezibuhlungu ebuntwaneni ezifana nobudlova basekhaya, ukuhlukunyezwa, ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, noma ukuhlukana kwabazali—okungaba nomthelela ohlala njalo empilweni yengqondo yengane kanye nenhlalakahle yesikhathi esizayo.
02｜Ukuphathwa Kwesikhathi Sesikrini:
Kusukela Empikiswaneni Kuya Ekuvumelaneni
Esikhathini sedijithali, isikhathi sokubuka isikrini sesibe yinselele enkulu emfundweni yomndeni. U-Aaron uzokwabelana ngalokhu"Indlela Yokulinganisela":
"Ukulinganisela akusona isijeziso—kuwukuhlakanipha. Ezweni lokweqisa, 'kwanele' amandla amakhulu."
Uzokwethula indlela asebenzisa ngayo“Imbiza Yesikhathi Sesikrini”indlela yokusiza izingane zinqobe umlutha wemidlalo; xoxa ngokubaluleka kanye nomkhuba wokudala“Izindawo Ezingenazo Ubuchwepheshe”ekhaya; futhi uphakamise"ibhalansi yengqondo nomzimba nomoya"indlela yokusekela intsha ekubalekeni ukucindezelwa kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nokubuyela endleleni yokuphila enempilo.
Uphinde agcizelele:
"UMthetho Wolimi usikhumbuza ukuthi amazwi ethu akha ubuntu bezingane zethu."
Uma ubeka imithetho,sebenzisa ulimi olunenhlonipho nolucacileesikhundleni sokusola noma amalebula, ukuze izingane zizwe ukwethenjwa ngemuva kwemingcele.
03｜Ukunika amandla
Ikusasa Ngale Kwezivivinyo
Ebhekene nobunzima nezikhathi ezinzima zemizwa yezingane ngemva kokuhlolwa, u-Aaron ugcizelela:"Ukuxazulula izinkinga zangempela kunqoba amamaki aphelele."Esigabeni esizayo esibukhoma, uzokwethula imiqondo ye-"Isifinyezo Sokwehluleka"futhi"T"Izingane ezimise okwesibuko"ukusiza abazali ukuhlela ukukhula kwengane yabo ngendlela ehlelekile ehlobo, ukunciphisa ukukhathazeka komzali.
04｜Ukulungiswa Kwabazali Nengane:
Ukulawula Ukuxhumeka
"Ukukhulisa izingane akukhona ukulawula—kumayelana nokuxhumana."
Kuleli hlobo, njengoba imikhuba yomndeni iphazamiseka, u-Aaron uzokwabelana ngendlela yokwakha kabusha ngokushesha ukuxhumana komzali nengane""Isigqi Sokukhulisa Abantwana" 3:2:1kanye"5-Ukulungiswa Kwemizuzu Emincane."Uzophinde ethule"Isifanekiso Sokuxolisa"kanye"Umthetho Wokumodela"ukusiza izingane zithuthukise umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nokulawula ngokomzwelo.
"Intuthuko, hhayi ukuphelela."
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"Awusemuva. Useyashintsha."
——Aaron Chavez, "Imithetho Engu-7 Yokukhulisa Izingane"
Ukukhulisa izingane akukhona nje ukuxazulula izinkinga — kumayelanaukukhula ndawonyeJoyina nathi kulesi sigaba esibukhoma ukuze ulethe uthando namandla ohambweni lwakho lwasehlobo.
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