Kaiwhakahaere Rōpū, a Aaron, Arotake Kauwhau: Aratohu "Ora" mō te Mātua Raumati

Ehara i te mea he kaiārahi mātau noa a Aaron i roto i te mātauranga o te ao, engari he matua hoki ia mō ngā tamariki tokotoru, ā, ko ia te kaituhi oNgā Ture e 7 mō te MātuatangaI tēnei wāhanga ora, ka tangohia e ia ngā kōrero tūturu o tana pukapuka hei tuku i ngā rautaki whai hua, e ahu mai ana i te rangahau ki ngā mātua me te tirohanga ā-ao—e kapi ana i ngā kaupapa pēnei i tengā momo whakatipu tamariki, te whakatakoto rohe, te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kare ā-roto, ngā tikanga ako, me te whakapakari i ngā hononga whānau.

Tīmata mai i tana akete rapunga whakaaro mō te mātua, ka tohaina e Aaron ngā huarahi ka taea e ngā mātua te huri i ngā wero hei whai wāhitanga tipu i te wā "tino mōrearea" o te hararei raumati e noho tahi ana te mātua me te tamaiti:

"He mahi pōrearea te mahi mātua, he mahi kore e taea te matapae, ā, i ētahi wā he mahi whakaiti. Engari koinei te pono: ki te pai ake tā tātou mahi, ka pai ake te rite o ā tātou tamariki."

Ka tūhuratia hoki e iangā momo tikanga whakatipu tamariki rerekē, tae atu ki:

Ka hipokina hoki e iame pēhea te tautuhi me te urupare ki ngā Wheako Tamariki Kino (ACE)—ngā āhuatanga mamae o te tamarikitanga pērā i te tutu ā-whare, te tukino, te matenga o tētahi e arohaina ana, te wehenga rānei o ngā mātua — ka pā kino pea ēnei ki te hauora hinengaro o te tamaiti me tōna oranga ā muri ake nei.

I tēnei ao matihiko, kua noho te wā mata hei wero nui i roto i te mātauranga whānau. Ka tohaina e Aaron te"Te Ara o te Whakaōrite":

"Ehara te whakaōrite i te whiu—engari he whakaaro nui. I roto i te ao taikaha, ko te 'rawa' he mana nui."

Ka whakamāramahia e ia te āhua o tana whakamahi i te"Ipu Mata Mata"he tikanga hei āwhina i ngā tamariki ki te wikitoria i te waranga petipeti; matapakihia te hiranga me te mahi o te waihanga"Ngā Rohe Kore-Hangarau"ki te kāinga; ā, ka tūtohu i tētahi"Te taurite o te hinengaro-tinana-wairua"he huarahi hei tautoko i ngā taiohi kia mawhiti atu i te taumaha rawa o ngā pāpāho pāpori, kia hoki mai ai ki tētahi momo noho hauora.

E whakanui ana hoki ia:

"E whakamahara mai ana te Ture o te Reo ko ā tātou kupu te kaihanga o ngā tuakiri o ā tātou tamariki."

I te whakatakoto ture,whakamahia te reo whakaute, mārama hokikaua ki te whakapae, ki ngā tapanga rānei, kia rongo ai ngā tamariki i te whakawhirinaki kei muri i ngā rohe.

I a ia e anga atu ana ki ngā piki me ngā heke o ngā kare ā-roto o ngā tamariki i muri i ngā whakamātautau, ka whakanui a Aaron:"Ka hinga ake te whakaoti rapanga o te ao tūturu i ngā māka tino pai."I te wāhanga ora e tū mai nei, ka whakaatuhia e ia ngā ariā o te"Whakarāpopototanga o te Rahunga"me"T"Tamariki āhua-āhua"hei āwhina i ngā mātua ki te whakamahere rautaki i te tipu o ā rātou tamariki i te raumati, kia māmā ake ai te manukanuka mō ngā mātua.

"Ehara te mahi mātua i te mea mō te mana whakahaere—engari mō te hononga."

I tēnei raumati, i te mea kua whakararuraruhia ngā mahi o ia rā whānau, ka tohaina e Aaron te huarahi hei hanga anō i te hononga mātua-tamaiti ki te whānau."3:2:1 Te Rīpene Mātuame te"5-Whakatikatika Miniti."Ka whakaurua hoki e ia te"Tauira Whakapāha"me te"Ture Whakatauira"hei āwhina i ngā tamariki ki te whakawhanake i te kawenga me te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto.

Ehara i te mea ko te whakaoti rapanga anake te mahi mātua — engari ko tee tipu tahi anaHono mai ki tēnei wāhanga ora hei kawe mai i te aroha me te kaha ki roto i tō haerenga raumati.

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