Maphunziro a IB PYP
Mtsogoleri wa Gulu Aaron akugawana malangizo okhudza ubale wa makolo achilimwe
Tchuthi cha chilimwe ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri yocheza ndi ana—komanso nyengo imene mikangano ya m'banja imayamba. Kuyambira mavuto okhudza nthawi yowonera TV mpaka nkhawa za kusukulu, kuyambira kukwiya kwambiri mpaka kulephera kulankhulana, makolo ambiri amavutika maganizo."momwe mungalangire"ndi"Kudzimva wopanda mphamvu."
Kuti tithetse izi,CIS inaitana Aaron Chavez—Mtsogoleri wa CIEO International Schools ku China komanso wolemba buku lakuti The 7 Laws of Parenting.
Poganizira mavuto atatu omwe makolo amakumana nawo nthawi yachilimwe, Aaron amapereka malangizo othandiza komanso othandiza ochokera ku sayansi ndi zokumana nazo.
Aaron Chavez
Mtsogoleri wa CIEO
Masukulu Apadziko Lonse ku China
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Master of Education
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Zaka zoposa 25 zachitukuko cha maphunziro; wokhala ndi chidziwitso cha utsogoleri pamlingo wa chigawo
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Mphunzitsi wakale, mkulu wa sukulu, woyang'anira chigawo, komanso mkulu wa bungwe lophunzitsa ku Washington State, USA
"Malamulo 7 a Kulera Ana" lolembedwa ndi Aaron
1. Musanayese "Kukonza" Zinthu—Choyamba, Dziwani Mtundu wa ChiyaniNdinu Kholo
Masiku achilimwe omwe timakhala pafupi ndi ana athu, njira zathu zolerera ana nthawi zambiri zimakhala zoonekera kwambiri. Kuzindikira njira yanu yolerera ana ndiyo njira yoyamba yothanirana ndi mavuto.
Psychology nthawi zambiri imatchula njira zinayi zazikulu zolerera ana:
• Wovomerezeka:Zofunikira Zazikulu, Kuyankha Kwambiri (Kufunda & Kuthandizira)
• Waulamuliro:Kuyankha Kochepa (Kufunda ndi Thandizo), Zofunikira Zambiri
• Wololeza:Kuyankha Kwambiri (Kufunda ndi Kuthandizira), Zosowa Zochepa
• Osakhudzidwa:Kuyankha Kochepa (Kufunda ndi Thandizo), Zosowa Zochepa
Psychology imatchula njira zinayi zazikulu zolerera ana. Pano, kuyankha kumatanthauzachikondi ndi chithandizo chamaganizo chimene kholo limapereka—osati kungoyankha kokha, komanso kuyankha mosamala komanso modzipereka.
Ngati njira zolerera ana sizikuyenda bwino pa nthawi ya tchuthi, zingayambitse chisokonezo m'mbali zitatu izi:
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Mavuto a nthawi yowonera pa TV
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Kupsinjika maganizo ndi nkhawa pa maphunziro
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Kukwiya kwa mtima polankhulana pakati pa makolo ndi ana
Kodi tingatani kuti tithane ndi mavuto a makolo a m'chilimwe ndikupanga ubale wabwino ndi ana athu komanso wokhazikika?
Aaron akupereka yankho lake—lozikidwa pa sayansi komanso zochitika zenizeni.
Aaron ndi Gulu la Utsogoleri wa Maphunziro a CIS
2. Zimene Sayansi Imatiuza: Ubale Ukhoza KuchiraKusokonezeka kwa Ana
Mu buku la Malamulo 7 a Kulera Ana, Aaron analemba kuti:
"Chinthu chabwino kwambiri chomwe makolo angachite kuti athandize ana awo kuchira ndikukhala ogwirizana maganizo."
Iyi si lingaliro lotonthoza chabe—Zimathandizidwa ndi sayansi ya ubongo.Kafukufuku wa ACE (Zochitika Zoipa za Ana), wochitidwa ndi CDC ndi Kaiser Permanente, unali woyamba kuulula momwe mavuto a ubwana angakhalire ndi zotsatirapo za nthawi yayitali pa kukula kwa ubongo wa mwana komanso thanzi la maganizo.
Chofunika kwambiri, Aaron akutikumbutsa kuti:"Ana ndi olimba mtima kwambiri. Ndi ubale wabwino komanso malo abwino, ngakhale omwe ali ndi zigoli zambiri za ACE amatha kuchita bwino."
Mwanjira ina,Mabala omwe amayambitsidwa muubwenzi ayeneranso kuchiritsidwa kudzera muubwenzi.Yankho lililonse limene timapereka, kukumbatirana kulikonse, mphindi iliyonse yoyang'anizana maso imathandiza kumanganso chitetezo chawo.
3. Kulera ana sikutanthauza kulamulira— ndi za kulumikizana
M'buku lake, Aaron akufotokoza zaMalamulo 7 a Kulera Ana, dongosolo lomwe limathandiza kusintha kulera ana kuchokera pa ulamuliro kupita pa kulumikizana:
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Lamulo la Kulumikizana
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Lamulo la Kusasinthasintha
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Lamulo la Kupanga Zitsanzo
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Lamulo la Chilankhulo
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Lamulo la Kudziletsa
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Lamulo la Kulinganiza
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Lamulo la Chidziwitso
Monga momwe Aaron akunenera:"Tinafufuza kufunika kwa chidziwitso ndi kulinganiza, komanso momwe chitsanzo cha luntha la malingaliro, chidwi, ndi chisamaliro chaumwini chimathandizira kulera ana olimba mtima komanso achifundo."
Tiyeni tiwone bwino momwe malamulo awa angatitsogolere kudzera mumavuto atatu akuluakulu okhudzana ndi kulera ana m'chilimwe.
Vuto 1:Magalasi - Kugwirizana Kapena Kusamvana?
Chilimwe chimabwera ndi nkhondo yodziwika bwino: nthawi yowonera pa TV. Aaron akutikumbutsa kuti:
"Tinafufuza za kuchepetsa thupi, makamaka m'nthawi ya digito, komanso momwe tingatsogolere ana kuti akhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi ukadaulo, nthawi, komanso iwo eni."
Yesani kugwiritsa ntchito izimfundo zitatu:
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Lamulo la Kudziletsa
Mu dziko lomwe limalimbikitsa kuchita zinthu mopitirira muyeso—kuonera TV nthawi zambiri, shuga wambiri, ndi kulimbikira kwambiri—kuphunzitsa ana mosamala kumawathandiza kukhala ndi khalidwe lodziletsa, kulimba mtima, komanso kudzidziwa bwino. -
Lamulo la Kusasinthasintha
Kusasinthasintha kumabweretsa chitetezo. Malamulo osasinthasintha amabweretsa nkhawa komanso mikangano yowonjezereka ya mphamvu. -
Lamulo la Chilankhulo
Mawu athu amakhala mawu amkati mwa mwana wathu. M'malo monena kuti “N’chifukwa chiyani mukugwiritsanso ntchito foni yanu?” yesani kuti: “Ndikudziwa kuti mumakonda masewerawa—tiyeni tipezenso chinthu chosangalatsa chomwe tingachichite limodzi.”
Vuto Lachiwiri:Nkhawa Yophunzira
—Kodi Timakonzekera Bwanji Zamtsogolo?
Chilimwe nthawi zambiri chimabweretsa maphunziro komanso "mantha obwerera m'mbuyo." Aaron akutikumbutsa kuti maphunziro enieni ndi okhudza kukulitsa chidwi, osati kutsatira malamulo:
"Maphunziro enieni amalimbikitsa chidwi, osati kutsatira malamulo."
Yesani kugwiritsa ntchito:
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Lamulo la Kulinganiza
Kulinganiza zinthu ndiye maziko a moyo wabwino. M'dziko lodzaza ndi zinthu zolimbikitsa kwambiri, zowonera, zokonzekera zinthu mopitirira muyeso, komanso zambiri zambiri, ana amafunika thandizo kuti agwirizanitse maganizo awo, matupi awo, ndi mizimu yawo. Kuphunzitsa kulinganiza kumeneku kumawathandiza kukhala ndi chidziwitso, kuthana ndi nkhawa, komanso kuchita bwino m'mbali zonse za moyo. -
Lamulo la Chidziwitso
Kulimbikitsa chikondi cha kuphunzira ndi chimodzi mwa zolinga zofunika kwambiri pakulera ana. Maphunziro enieni amapitirira m'kalasi—amakulitsa chidwi, kusinthasintha, ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukula moyo wonse.
Vuto 3:Kulankhulana Kosagwirizana
—Kodi Timamanganso Bwanji?
Kuyandikana kwambiri nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa mikangano yamaganizo. Aaron akutikumbutsa kuti:
"Kukhalapo kwanu kuli ndi mphamvu kuposa uphungu wanu."
Chofunika kwambiri apa ndi:
Lamulo la Kupanga Zitsanzo
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Ana amaphunzira zambiri kuchokera ku zochita zathu kuposa kuchokera ku mawu athu.
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Tsiku lililonse, momwe timachitira zinthu ndi ena, momwe timayankhira kupsinjika maganizo, momwe timamvera, komanso momwe timachitira ndi kulephera—tikukonza dongosolo la miyoyo ya ana athu.
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Ndinu mphunzitsi wofunika kwambiri wa mwana wanu.
4. Chilimwe chino, Sankhani Chikondi ndi Kukhalapo
Aaron akulemba kuti:
"Simuyenera kukhala wangwiro. Muyenera kupitiriza kubwera—ndi chikondi, kudzichepetsa, ndi kufunitsitsa kuyesanso."
Chilimwe chino, sitingathe kusankha bwino bokosi lililonse kapena kudzaza tsiku lililonse. Koma tingasankhe:
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Yankhani modekha pafupipafupi, ndipo fulumirani pang'onopang'ono
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Konzani malamulo pamodzi, osati kungowakhazikitsa
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Funsani zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa mwana wanu, osati kungofunsa kuti, “Kodi mwamaliza homuweki yanu?”
"Si nkhani yolera mwana wopanda chilema—ndi nkhani yolera mwana wathunthu."
Mukuyesera—ndipo mukuchita bwino kwambiri.
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