Umuyobozi w'Itsinda Aaron asangiza ubuyobozi ku bijyanye no kurera abana mu mpeshyi

Mu minsi miremire y'izuba tumarana n'abana bacu, uburyo bwacu bwo kurera bukunze kugaragara cyane. Kumenya uburyo bwawe bwo kurera ni yo ntambwe ya mbere yo gutsinda ibibazo.

Muri rusange, imitekerereze y'abantu igaragaza uburyo bune bw'ingenzi bwo kurera abana:

Iyo uburyo bwo kurera abana butari bwiza mu biruhuko, bishobora guteza akajagari mu ngingo eshatu zikurikira:

Ni gute twahangana n'ibibazo byo kurera abana mu mpeshyi, tugahuza abana bacu neza kandi mu buryo buhamye?

Aaron atanga igisubizo cye—gishingiye ku bya siyansi ndetse n'uburambe busanzwe.

Aaron ari kumwe n'itsinda ry'ubuyobozi bw'amasomo ya CIS

2. Icyo Siyansi Itubwira: Imibanire Irashobora GukiraIhungabana ryo mu bwana

Mu gitabo cy’amategeko 7 yo kurera abana, Aaron yanditse ati:

“Ikintu cyiza ababyeyi bashobora gukora kugira ngo bafashe abana babo gukira ni ugukomeza kugirana umubano mwiza n’amarangamutima.”

Iki si igitekerezo gihumuriza gusa—bishyigikiwe n'ubushakashatsi bw'imitsi.Ubushakashatsi bwa ACE (Ibibazo by’abana bibi), bwakozwe na CDC na Kaiser Permanente, ni bwo bwa mbere bwagaragaje uburyo ingorane zo mu bwana zishobora kugira ingaruka z’igihe kirekire ku mikurire y’ubwonko bw’umwana no ku buzima bwo mu mutwe.

Ikirenzeho, Aaron aratwibutsa ati:“Abana barakomera cyane. Iyo bafitanye umubano mwiza n’ibidukikije, ndetse n’abafite amanota menshi ya ACE bashobora gutera imbere.”

Mu yandi magambo,Ibikomere byatewe n'imibanire bigomba no gukira binyuze mu mibanire.Buri gisubizo dutanga, buri kanya ko guhoberana, buri kanya ko kurebana mu maso bibafasha kongera kumva bafite umutekano.

3. Kurera abana si ukugenzura ibintu— ni ukureba isano

Nkuko Aroni abivuga:“Twasuzumye akamaro k’ubumenyi n’uburinganire, n’uburyo kugaragaza ubwenge bw’amarangamutima, amatsiko, no kwiyitaho bifasha mu kurera abana bakomeye kandi bafite impuhwe.”

Reka turebere hamwe uburyo aya mategeko ashobora kutuyobora muIbibazo bitatu bikomeye byo kurera abana mu mpeshyi.

Ikibazo cya 1:Ecran—Ihuriro cyangwa Amakimbirane?

Mu mpeshyi haza intambara isanzwe: igihe cyo kureba amashusho. Aaron aratwibutsa:

“Twasuzumye uburimbane, cyane cyane muri iki gihe cy’ikoranabuhanga, n’uburyo bwo kuyobora abana mu mibanire myiza n’ikoranabuhanga, igihe, ndetse na bo ubwabo.”

Gerageza gushyira mu bikorwa ibiamahame atatu:

• Itegeko ryo kugabanya ibintu
  Mu isi ishishikariza abana gukoresha ibintu bikabije—igihe kinini cyo kureba amashusho, isukari nyinshi, gukangura ibitekerezo—kwigisha abana gukoresha uburinganire bibafasha kwifata, kwihangana mu marangamutima no kumenya kwimenya.

• Itegeko ryo Guhuza
  Guhuza ibintu bitanga umutekano. Amategeko adahuye atera imihangayiko no guharanira ubutegetsi kenshi.

• Amategeko y'Ururimi
  Amagambo yacu aba ijwi ry'umwana wacu. Aho kuvuga ngo “Kuki wongeye kuri telefoni yawe?” gerageza kuvuga uti: “Ndabizi ko ukunda uyu mukino—reka turebe n'ikintu gishimishije dushobora gukorana.”

Ikibazo cya 2:Guhangayika mu by'amasomo

—Ni gute twitegura iby'ejo hazaza by'ukuri?

Impeshyi ikunze kuzana uburezi n' "ubwoba bwo gusubira inyuma." Aaron atwibutsa ko uburezi nyakuri bugamije guteza imbere amatsiko, atari ugukurikiza amategeko:

"Uburezi nyakuri butera amatsiko, ntabwo butera kubahiriza amategeko."

Gerageza gushyira mu bikorwa:

• Itegeko ry'uburinganire
  Kuringaniza ni ryo shingiro ry'ubuzima bwiza. Mu isi yuzuyemo ibintu byinshi bishishikaza abantu, kureba ibintu mu buryo burenze urugero, gukora ibintu byinshi mu gihe runaka, no gutanga amakuru menshi, abana bakeneye ubufasha kugira ngo bahuze ubwenge bwabo, imibiri yabo n'umwuka wabo. Kwigisha ubu buringanire bibafasha kubaka ubumenyi, gucunga imihangayiko, no gutera imbere mu bice byose by'ubuzima.

• Itegeko ry'Ubumenyi
  Guteza imbere urukundo rwo kwiga ni imwe mu ntego z'ingenzi zo kurera abana. Uburezi nyakuri burenze iby'ishuri—butuma umuntu agira amatsiko, amenyera ibintu, kandi yifuza gukura ubuzima bwe bwose.