Ka tohaina e te Kaiwhakahaere Rōpū, a Aaron, tētahi aratohu mō te whanaungatanga mātua i te raumati

I ngā rā roa o te raumati e noho tahi ana me ā tātou tamariki, ka kitea nuitia ake ā tātou momo whakatipu tamariki. Ko te mōhio ki tāu ake huarahi whakatipu tamariki te taahiraa tuatahi ki te wikitoria i ngā wero.

E whā ngā momo mātua matua e tautuhia ana e te hinengaro hinengaro:

Ina kore e taurite ngā momo mātua i te wā hararei, ka taea e rātou te arahi ki te raruraru i ngā wāhanga e toru e whai ake nei:

Me pēhea tātou e whakatere ai i ngā pōrearea o te whakatipu tamariki i te raumati, me te hanga hononga pumau, mahana hoki ki ā tātou tamariki?

Ka tukuna e Aaron tana whakautu—i ahu mai i te pūtaiao me ngā wheako o te ao tūturu.

Ārona me te Rōpū Kaiārahi Mātauranga CIS

2. Ngā Kōrero a te Pūtaiao ki a Tātou: Ka taea e ngā whanaungatanga te whakaoraTe mamae o te tamarikitanga

I roto i te pukapuka *Ngā Ture e 7 o te Mātua*, ka tuhituhi a Aaron:

"Ko te mea pai rawa atu ka taea e ngā mātua te mahi hei āwhina i ā rātou tamariki kia ora ko te noho tahi me te whanaungatanga."

Ehara tēnei i te whakaaro whakamarie noa iho—e tautokona ana e te pūtaiao roro.Ko te Rangahau ACE (Ngā Wheako Tamariki Kino), i whakahaerehia e te CDC me Kaiser Permanente, te tuatahi ki te whakaatu i te pānga roa o ngā raruraru wawe ki te whanaketanga roro me te hauora hinengaro o te tamaiti.

He mea nui ake, e whakamahara mai ana a Aaron ki a tātou:"He tino manawanui ngā tamariki. Mēnā he tika ngā whanaungatanga me ngā taiao, ka taea e te hunga he nui ā rātou kaute ACE te tupu pai."

I ētahi atu kupu,Ko ngā patunga i puta i roto i ngā whanaungatanga me whakaora anō hoki mā roto i ngā whanaungatanga.Ko ia urupare e tukuna ana e tātou, ko ia awhi, ko ia wā o te titiro kanohi, ka āwhina i te hanga anō i tō rātou wairua haumaru.

3. Ehara te mātua i te mea he mana whakahaere— he mea mō te hononga

E ai ki tā Ārona:"I tirotirohia e mātou te hiranga o te mātauranga me te taurite, me te pēhea o te whakatauira i te mātauranga kare ā-roto, te hihiri, me te manaaki i a ia anō e āwhina ana ki te whakatipu tamariki pakari, aroha hoki."

Kia tirohia tata atu tātou me pēhea e taea ai e ēnei ture te ārahi i a tātoue toru ngā wero matua mō ngā mātua i te raumati.

Wero 1：Ngā Mata—Hononga, Taupatupatu rānei?

I te raumati ka puta mai tētahi pakanga mōhio: te wā mata. He whakamahara mai a Aaron ki a tātou:

"I tirotirohia e mātou te whakaōrite, inā koa i tēnei ao matihiko, me pēhea te ārahi i ngā tamariki ki tētahi whanaungatanga hauora ki te hangarau, ki te wā, tae atu ki a rātou anō."

Whakamātauria te whakamahi i ēneingā mātāpono e toru:

• Te Ture o te Whakaōrite
  I tēnei ao e akiaki ana i ngā mahi tino kino—he nui ake te wā i mua i te mata, he nui ake te huka, he nui ake te whakaohooho—mā te whakaako i ngā tamariki ki te whai i te āhua o te whakaōrite ka āwhina i a rātou ki te whakawhanake i te whakahaere i a rātou anō, te manawanui i ngā kare ā-roto, me te mōhio ki a rātou anō.

• Te Ture o te Tūturutanga
  Mā te ōritetanga ka puta te haumaru. Mā ngā ture rerekē ka puta te manukanuka me ngā pakanga mana maha.

• Te Ture o te Reo
  Ka noho ā tātou kupu hei reo ā-roto mō tā tātou tamaiti. Engari kaua e kī atu "He aha koe i whakamahi anō ai i tō waea?", ngana ki te kī: "E mōhio ana ahau he pai ki a koe tēnei kēmu—me kimi hoki tāua i tētahi mea ngahau ka taea e tāua te mahi tahi."

Wero 2：Manukanuka Mātauranga

—Me pēhea tātou e whakarite pono ai mō te heke mai?

He maha ngā wā ka kawea mai e te raumati te ako me te "wehi kei hinga ki muri." Kei te whakamahara mai a Aaron ki a tātou ko te mātauranga pono he whakatipu i te hihiri, ehara i te ngohengohe:

"Ko te mātauranga pono e whakatairanga ana i te hiahia, ehara i te ngohengohe."

Whakamātauria te tono:

• Te Ture o te Taurite
  Ko te taurite te tūāpapa o te oranga mō te wā katoa. I tēnei ao e kī ana i te nui rawa o te whakaohooho, ngā mata, te nui rawa o ngā mahi, me te nui rawa o ngā mōhiohio, me tautoko ngā tamariki kia taurite ai ō rātou hinengaro, tinana, me te wairua. Mā te whakaako i tēnei taurite ka āwhina i a rātou ki te whakawhanake i te mōhiotanga, te whakahaere i te ahotea, me te tupu i roto i ngā āhuatanga katoa o te ao.

• Te Ture o te Mātauranga
  Ko te whakatipu i te aroha ki te ako tētahi o ngā whāinga matua o te whakatipu tamariki. Ehara i te mea noa iho i roto i te akomanga te mātauranga tūturu—e whakatipu ana i te hiahia ki te mōhio, te ngāwari ki te urutau, me te hiahia ki te tipu mō te wā katoa.